Friday, October 31, 2008

Fall Fun!

Tonight we had a PARTY!! A lot of our friends who have kids here all got together and had a "fall festival" of sorts. We bobbed for apples, had lots of snacks (fudge, cheese crackers, popcorn balls, and lots more), pinned the stem on the pumpkin, decorated pumpkins, and lastly "trick-or-treated" a few houses (of other Americans nearby). All in all it was a fun night. Here are some pics to illustrate just how much fun we had!!! I had the pretty dancer and the OU football player. Hudson enjoyed painting the face on his pumpkin.Bobbing for apples....the best part were the moms who had to show the kids how to do it!! Way to go girls! The kids quickly got the hang of it....Hannah getting her apple!Needless to say....Hudson really enjoyed this activity. He ended up bobbing 3 or 4 times. Mr. E helping Hudson get dizzy! Way to go Hudson!!! Hannah taking time to pose while getting dizzy.Did I mention Hudson REALLY liked bobbing for apples. Actually, Hudson was just getting really really wet. (at this point I would like to point out how HOT it was tonight)Stopping off at some friend's house for some candy. Since we live on the 6th floor, we decided to have Rob sit outside of our aparment building with candy. Too much trouble to walk all the way up then all the way back down. (please notice the sweat....I think it is supposed to be cold by Nov.?)
The girls walking around with their candy headed to the next stop!

The group picture.....thanks to the B family who has 3 girls and lots and lots of dress up clothes!!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Karaoke Anyone?

I don't know about you but I love a good Karaoke night! I have been secretly hoping to be invited to Karaoke with friends since we moved here, put a mic in my hands...I'm ready to go. After all, this is how I was raised. :)

Finally...Sunday night, Rob and I were invited by some friends to Karaoke with a big group of people they know. YES!!! My friend made me promise Rob and I would sing, no matter what. When we arrived, they were playing an "ice-breaker" game....in their language. We sat down and listened, quickly realizing we had better figure it out because our turn was coming. It seemed they were introducing themselves then singing a line from a song....then the next person had to tell the previous person's name, sing their song and then introduce themselves and their song. YIKES!!! I could feel myself sweating......this was going to be bad. 3 names to listen for and a song. Then it was my turn. I stood up and said "hello", said the girl's name on my left, and butchered her song (she helped me a little), shared my Asianese name and sang a line from an Asianese song I know, then....it was Rob's turn. Boy did he luck out sitting next to me. He didn't butcher either of my names or my song. Shared his name and sang the ever popular song, "I love you like a rat loves rice" (not kidding, a big hit here) Everyone clapped and cheered......I guess we were able to play our first "ice breaker" game in another language.....PHEW!

Karaoke is a BIG deal here. It is quite the popular pasttime. You get a bunch of friends together, rent a room at a KTV place and spend your evening. For most people....add some alcohol or actually a lot of alcohol, and you have quite an exciting night. Our party, however, was alcohol-free.....and we STILL had quite a fun time.

Rob and I sang our standard Karaoke song "When I Fall in Love".... then the English songs just kept coming and they kept handing over the mics. "Hey Jude", "Yesterday once More" by Karen Carpenter (needed my mom for that one), "I Can Show you the World" LOTS of Backstreet Boys, then......"Cinderella" by the Cheetah Girls came on!! YEAH! I grabbed the mic and belted it out. Once we finished, Rob asked how I knew this song.....I reminded him we have a 10 yr old daughter (almost).

All in all it was quite a fun night. Definitely a cultural experience, one you should try sometime. I was reminded of my sweet friend Maggi Nash......she is the all-time Karaoke Queen, KTV parties at her house ALMOST measure up to the ones here!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Saturday Morning with the Boys - Rob

Today is Saturday. We had nothing much on the schedule today, so the ladies like to stay in bed a little longer, but for Hudson and I (really more Hudson than me) anything after 7:30 is just a waste of prime play time. So today we left the ladies in bed an headed out before 8:00 for breakfast and a bike ride. I thought we'd share a few pictures from our morning out.


This is the street in front of our apartment complex. Right now the city is covered in flowers, There is a big international trade exposition in town and they have made the whole city beautiful.
Hudson on the back of the bike ready for a morning ride.


First we stopped at Mickey D's for some breakfast. Hudson loves the sausage and eggs. Hudson never misses the chance to climb a good tree.

After breakfast we rode out to the river near our house. We have been watching the construction of a new bridge across the river. Looks like they are almost done with the supports.


After checking out the bridge we headed down to the river. This is a spot where a ferry, looking much less than seaworthy, picks people up to take them across to the other side.


Of course our time down by the river quickly turned to throwwing rocks in the river trying to make the biggest splash. What is it about boys and throwing rocks into water? We could have done this all day.

After a long ride down and around the river we headed to the park to get a drink and throw the football.


Hudson found this little boy who enjoyed playing with this strange looking ball.


Hudson finds friends no matter where he is.

We did a little punting....


and a little throwing...

and of course a little jumping over make believe defenders.

Hudson even let me try to get a good picture of him for his mom.


We stayed out until lunch time and had a great morning. I can't believe the ladies missed out on all this fun!


Thursday, October 23, 2008

Fun Times!

Last week we were so happy to welcome some new friends from TN to our city....brought here by Reagan and Heather. (my brother and his wife) They were a great team and we were so glad to know them all.

We were also happy to see some family. Here are a few pics from the day we just spent having fun and seeing some sights.....and riding go-carts.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Wanna Race?

I would like to tell you about an observation I have made about boys. This is not profound.



They like to race.



It seems that everywhere we go, Hudson always has to be 1st. Up 6 flights of stairs...he sprints. Down the hill...he races. Wal-Mart....has to be first through the door. One of my favorite pics of Hudson is this one from last January at the San Diego Zoo. He is unhappy becasue his Uncle Phil beat him through the exit at the zoo, after a day of Hudson racing him everywhere I am sure, this is what he looked like.

The funny thing is watching him with his sister. If she beats him to a point, he keeps running and proclaims they weren't racing to the first location but his newly determined location and he got their first, so he wins. One of my favorite happened today. We all arrived downstairs on the bike. The kids grabbed all their stuff, and headed upstairs. I pulled the electric bike inside our stairwell, maneuvered it through the other bikes, chained it up, locked it up, grabbed the rest of the belongings out of the bike and finally headed upstairs. I was greeted with "Mom, you really lost bad!" Thanks. (Good thing I am not competitive, so this doesn't bother me)

The funniest part about this is you can say, "Oh, he's an 8 yr. old boy, very natural to run and race EVERYWHERE he goes". So, what about my 34 yr. old boy?

You see, on Thursday morning, we were taking the kids (all 4 of them) to school. I had 2 on my bike, Rob had 2 on his. He has the more powerful bike, so whoever is on his bike "wins". (becasue life is a race). Hudson, every day wants to ride with Rob. He tells me it isn't that he doesn't like to ride with me, but dad's bike is better. On this particular morning, I had Hudson and AB on my bike, Rob with Hannah and KT. We took off and at the first intersection made the green light, Rob getting stuck at the red. We go on to school, and upon arrival realize Rob and his crew were already there. My one day to win, redeem myself in my son's eyes, actually BEAT the faster bike. You might ask, how did Rob get there so fast if he got stuck at the red light? Oh...that's becasue he drove on the opposite side of the rode into oncoming traffic to be on the school's side of the road.....SO HE COULD WIN!!!!! (I included this last part so his momma and daddy will scold him for driving into oncoming traffic with a grandbaby)

Maybe your household is different? Is is just my boy(s) who like to race everywhere? I remember my mom constantly telling my brothers "Life is not a race". And I am pretty sure at least one of my brothers, if not both has a running tally of who has won more HORSE or one on one games. I guess....boys will be boys!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Is it Thursday already? Random update

Thanks to all of you who were so concerned about Rob and his finding out about the OU game. He ended up getting to watch the whole thing a few hours later, so was able to find out the outcome of the game himself. However, OSUDickson's concern for me was above and beyond... your compassion was amazing. (and no comments from the Wright household either) :)


We were very pleased to see Reagan and Heather this week as well as their friends from TN. I however have only gotten to see them for about 24 hours, as I helped them get settled then returned to our city for language class. Rob has gone back and forth a few times this week so he could also go to class, but we are looking forward to another 2 days with them Friday and Saturday.


They brought with them a suitcase full of stuff for us. I don't even want to think about how many suitcases of "stuff" we have brought over in all. However, I am sooooo thankful for all the goodies we were able to discover. Cake and brownie mixes, American shampoo/conditioner for my CRAZY hair, treats for the kids, and CHEETOS and GOLDFISH!!


And finally, no "care package" would be complete without.......

a tribute to the OKC Thunder! Thank you Miss Debbie for the penant and Mom for the OKC Thunder gear. Hudson is now ready for the new season.

In other news....Joyce, the yellow fish has gone on to Greater Waters, The Big Sea in the Sky, or actually the Squatty in the Bathroom. When I got home from traveling I called Rob and told him, "something is really wrong with Joyce, half of her body is missing, but she is still swimming." He said we would look at her when he got home the next day. When he got home....he said...it is time. We decided to wait until after the kids went to bed. It was difficult, because she looked sooooo gross. I wanted to take a picture, but Rob said it was too gruesome. So, you will have to imagine our poor fish, swimming around with half of her body. All the other fish are doing fine.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

GAME DAY!!!

One of the things my family misses most is Game Day in OK!! For big games we would usually have family come over or go to one of their houses, eat way too much junk food, and have a really fun day together...adults gathered around the tv, cousins playing in the back. In fact, one day, Hudson said, "mom I really miss just putting all the food out on all the counters and you can eat whenever you want...whatever you want". (all children are basically unsupervised for 4 hours to eat and drink whatever they want....we only come when they are bleeding profusely from the head)

Today, being OU/TX, Rob asked if we could have football food for lunch. So, last night I made chips, prepared everything to make sausage balls today, Hannah made a red velvet cake in honor of OU, and I got some chicken ready to pop in the crock pot while we were at our small group this morning. We invited a few people over to watch the game with us...we were ready.

We arrived home from group time, quickly finished the prep for lunch and sat down yelling and cheering for OU. With 3 minutes left in the 1st quarter we lost our connection to the beloved slingbox. We tried for a long time to get it back, internet was working, nothin had changed, the picture just froze then said we were no longer remotely connected. Bummer. We sent our guests home wih some sausage balls, and now Rob is out running errands getting ready for our week.

The catch is, he still doesn't know the outcome of the game. I cheated and read all about it, and the other upsets. Poor guy. I would kinda like to prolong the inevitable. Could someone please switch the outcome of the game before he watches it. Fix the slingbox but choose the alternate ending? Every other week, we have gotten to watch OU play with no problems. Guess now I know if the slingbox goes down it's a way of saying, "you don't really want to watch".

Oh Well, Maybe next week!!

Friday, October 10, 2008

Drama! Drama! Drama!

We had 3 pieces of DRAMA fill our lives the last 24 hours. Nothing to get too worked up about, but at least blog worthy.

1. Drama in the Fish Tank

As we sat around yesterday afternoon, Hannah and Hudson doing homework, and Rob and I studying language/returning emails etc.... Rob noticed Joyce, our yellow fish wasn't moving. (We have been very pleased with our fish and tank so far, the 5 little fish have gone on to bigger seas, but our 2 big fish and 2 sucker fish are alive and well...after a month.) However, yesterday afternoon, we thought Joyce's life was coming to an end. You see, the parents' contribution to the fish tank was a big bridge the fish can swim through and around...really pretty. The problem came when Joyce got stuck in under the bridge in a little cave. Rob noticed her, opening her mouth widely "gasping". We all quickly went to the tank and Rob lifted up the bridge, but she was so stuck he didn't think he could get her out without snapping her in half....and the kids were present, so that was going to be TRAUMATIC!!! After a little bit of moving her around, he finally freed her. She looks like she has been through a war. A lot of her pretty yellow scales have been scraped off, and she is very banged up. Her eye was scraped up on the side of the bridge. She survived the night and is swimming around today as normal....WHEW....for now, we are all good!


2. Drama with the Rare Crystal

Yesterday, Hudson came home from school proudly showing off his new Crystal he found. He was so proud. He had found it inside a rock and it was definitely "rare". Rob examined it and told him he it was just glass and it was very sharp. Hudson, however being the expert, explained the hard work put into breaking open a rock, and glass didn't come inside of rock, only rare crystals. (hmmmm.....ashphalt?) So, while out to dinner with friends last night, the "crystal" shows up at the dinner table and ends up in Rob's possession (something about 5 children and a sharp piece of glass, um I mean crystal). Well, we got home last night, and low and behold we were minus Hudson's rare find. He was devestated becasue he said, "This was a once in a lifetime crystal, I will never find it again." Drama. Chances are he will find another next week.


3. Cookie Drama
One of my sweet tutors brought me cookies today from Wal-Mart. She told me if I liked them I could buy them any time I wanted becasue Wal-Mart always has them. I asked her what kind they were and she said chicken...WHAT?!?! CHICKEN?!?! As my mind wandered I thought she is offering me a chicken cookie and I am going to have to eat it right here. And she wants me to take the rest home to my family...they will be thrilled. I asked her if there were really chickens in them and she said, "oh yes!, see?" So, I ate one, and yep....not good. I got it all down. I wonder if they feel this way when I bring my cookies to them?

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Neighbors

I don't know her name. I only know her face. We speak greetings to one another every time we meet. I try and practice my language, but she often speaks too fast and uses another local language mixed in with the one I am learning. So I smile, "guess" at what she is saying and try to answer.

A few months ago I made a chocolate cake and took it to her house. She smiled, told me I was too polite, and about an hour later brought me back my plate, washed. A few days later she knocked on my door and handed me a bag of fruit. During the Mid-Autumn festival we gave her family some moon cakes. Again she responded with much thanks and told me I shouldn't have given them anything. Tonight she knocked on my door again, bringing me a bag of ???? They look like a type of nut, but they are mushy and smelly inside, so I am afraid to eat them. But I understand the gesture.

When I think about my sweet neighbor lady I think think of how we began talking to Father about her when we first decided to move here. We knew He would put us next to someone, some family. For months we have lifted her family up, never knowing who exactly she was. Now we have the privilege to meet her, get to know her and her sweet grandbaby who she cares for. They alway call us auntie or little brother or sister when they see any of us. The little boy always chatters on with Hudson or Hannah. Often I think of Father, who created her and placed her in apt. 602 knowing we would someday move into 601.

If she comes to your mind, please lift up our neighbor.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Random conversation

If you want a little insight into our marriage....check out this conversation Rob and I had at lunch.

Alicia: I have a confession to make. While you were out last night I tried to make bread. (rob is the master bread maker in the O home, and he had to travel out last night, so I thought I would make bread for the kids lunch)
Rob: How did it go?
Alicia: Not good.
Rob: Did you follow the directions I taped on the wall for you?
Alicia: Well, we were out of sugar so I decided to make "sugar-free" bread. And I read the whole instruction book to see how to run the bread machine. I just don't know what I did wrong.
Rob: You read the WHOLE book?
Alicia: Yeah...pretty much.
Rob: So you read the part about how the sugar has to interact with the yeast for the bread to rise.
Alicia:Oh...I missed that part.
Rob: Read the whole book, huh?

As Rob likes to say, that is the "wagoner" coming out in me, I am WAY too creative for recipes and instructions. By the way BG, thanks for the use of the bread machine....IT IS EXCELLENT!! At least when Rob uses it.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

300 Birch - from Rob for my Dad


In 1955 my grandpa used oilfield tubing and corrugated sheet metal to build a shop at the corner of 3rd and Birch in Yukon, OK. Then he slid the two huge front doors of Olmstead Machine Co. open for business. It was a machine and welding shop that mainly serviced oil field equipment and the occasional farmer with broken equipment. My dad began working with his dad there as a teenager. Sometime in the early 80’s my dad bought it from his dad and took over operation. Then I began spending my time on vacation from school at the shop with my dad. I used to love Christmas break because I had almost two weeks to be at the shop with my dad when it wasn’t so hot. I’m sure at some point in time both my dad and I shared a dream of me taking the shop over from him. I suppose the oil bust in the mid to late 80’s finished off those hopes as well as the shop itself. The shop has been closed down for years now and this week my dad closed the sale of the building and the land. The corner lot at 300 Birch, Yukon, OK no longer belongs to an Olmstead.

So, here are some of my favorite memories of growing up at 300 Birch; as I remember them.

BB Guns
I remember setting up aluminum can shooting ranges on the metal racks and scrap pile out the back door of the shop. Out that door, with my single cock BB pistol and .22 caliber air rifle in hand, I won many Olympic sharpshooting medals and won countless hard fought battles against faceless bad guys. Thankfully the cans never fought back.

The Attic
I remember the day I finally mustered up the courage to climb to the top of the ladder that led to the attic. I had flirted with the height for weeks, each day daring myself to go one rung higher; many days loosing my own dare. Once in the attic a whole new world of possibilities opened up. Many mornings I would head straight for the ladder and not come down until my dad called for lunch. I think I spent one entire summer up there. I found stacks of popular science magazines from the 60’s and 70’s. Once I uncovered several small four cylinder engines used on WW II bombers for auxiliary power. I pulled one down and tore it apart. It was to be the power unit for a home-made go cart I designed in my head (while sitting in church), but never built. But on the day I conquered the ladder I was faced with another challenge. Just a few steps into the attic there was a slat missing from the 2x12 boards that made up the attic floor. It took another several weeks before I summoned the nerve to step over and enter this brave new world.

The Tractor
I remember sitting in the seat of the tractor parked inside the shop door, gripping the steering wheel, and running through the gears as fast as I could, all while re-living the few great moments in auto sports that I knew. I won the Indy 500 more than any driver in history and was a legend in my own mind.

Foot-longs
I remember lunch trips to the NAPA auto parts store or Kierkegard’s hardware store on Yukon’s now forgotten main street. One day after stopping at the Arrowhead drive-in to pick up a foot-long hotdog for lunch we made one such run to the NAPA store. My dad said to leave my foot-long in the truck while we ran in the store. I took this to mean that I could take as much of my foot-long into the store as I could fit into my mouth. So I crammed most of the elongated hotdog into my mouth, leaving the chewing for my wait inside, and followed my dad into the parts shop. I jumped up on my usual rotating stool at the parts counter and tried to begin enjoying my lunch only to find I had bit off more than I could chew. I’m not sure how long it took for my dad to notice that I couldn’t quite breathe, but when he noticed my blueing complexion and slightly bugging eyes he quickly grabbed me by the arm and took me outside the shop. He bent me over and slapped me hard on the back a couple of times and out came the better part of my foot-long lunch. He didn’t even make me go back into the store.

Elevator Gene
I remember Elevator Gene, the crazy character that worked at the Yukon Farmers Co-Op grain elevators, gunning the engine on his 4-wheel-drive pick up announcing his passing with the blast of noise from his muffler-less exhaust pipes. My dad would look up from whatever he was doing and holler, "Hey Gene!" Gene often came in the shop and used words I was not familiar with at my house. My dad later told me we probably shouldn’t use those words. One day while my dad was working to mount a stubborn tire on a wheel Gene came by and offered his services. He just went and grabbed a huge sledge hammer and beat the tire into submission and then exclaimed, "Just get a bigger hammer!" I realize now that this was probably his entire philosophy of life.

The House
I remember before my granny died going to "the house" for lunch. We would slowly drive the less than half a mile to the house my dad grew up in. I preferred going the back way, down the ally, over the railroad tracks, through the cement mixing plant and past my great-granddads’ farm where the old red barn still stood. My granny would often make us breakfast for lunch, this was my favorite. After a mid-day pancake feast we would sit in the front room and watch a little of my granny’s favorite soap opera, Days of our Lives. My grandpa would nap in his chair for a little while (with his head back and mouth open wide, my dad called it catchin’ flies) and then we would head back to the shop to play for the rest of the day.

Checking the Mail
I remember taking quick trips to the post office to check the mail. It was there that my dad taught me to hold the door open for others and especially for ladies. I would always run to the door and try to be the first to hold it open for whoever might be on their way in or out of the post office. As I held the door I always glanced to see if he noticed my good manners. He always did.

Painting the Roof
I remember the two summers I spent painting the roof of the shop with a thick silver paint. I say two summers because it took me most of the first to paint one-half of the roof. My dad paid me by the hour for the work I put in that summer. During the school year between I found something that I desperately needed money for. So, I persuaded my dad to advance me the money for the other side of the roof with the agreement that it would take me about as much time to finish the remaining side as I had spent on the first. The next summer I finished the other side in less than a week’s time.

Dairy Hut
I remember hot slow summer days when my dad would say let’s close up and go to El Reno for lunch. This meant riding in the air-conditioned cab of my dad’s pickup sandwiched between my dad and granddad for the drive to Dairy Hut in El Reno. According to my dad there has never been a better burger than you could get at this greasy walk up burger joint. I always had regular burger with only cheese, tater tots and a .50 cent drink eaten back in the cool comfort of the pickup cab. I remember the three nameless white Styrofoam cups lined up on top of the soda machine with the price of the drink written on each with a black marker. There was the .50 cent, the .80 cent, and the dollar drink. The dollar drink seemed like an ocean of soda, more than anyone could ever hope to drink, yet still the object of this young boys craving. One day, after my dad had rebuffed repeated pleas for a dollar drink, I turned to my grand-dad. It didn’t take long to break him and I was in possession of the biggest cup I could imagine. I’m sure I probably left half the soda in the cup.

Big Gulps
I remember stopping in at 7-11 for a Big-Gulp on hot summer days. It was the first days of the serve yourself fountain drinks. I was always tempted to fill it up, take big drink and then top it off again. But my dad would never let me. "You pay for what you get" he would say. Anything else would be stealing.

The Drive
I remember the drives to and from the shop. Sometimes on the way home I’d say, "Can we please go ‘under the bridge’". Then as we approached the South Canadian river my dad would pull off onto the old road and drive across the river on the old metal works bridge running parallel just south of new concrete bridge; just because I wanted to. In the morning we would get out early to beat the summer heat, climb into my dad’s green ’72 chevy pickup and head for Yukon. If I was lucky we would stop at Hardee’s for a breakfast biscuit. It was always one sausage biscuit and one jelly biscuit, although I left the jelly unused. My dad and I had so many talks on that 20 minute drive down US 66. I remember times when we seemed to run out of things to talk about. Since I just loved talking to my dad I would ask him a question I already knew the answer to, but knew would require a lengthy answer; he always answered and the conversation always continued.

The Radio
I remember the sounds of Barbra Mandrell, Kenny Rodgers, The Oak Ridge Boys, and Dolly Parton carrying throughout the shop from the small radio in the back tuned to KEBC; Keepin’ Everybody Country. I always got a little excited when Elvira came on, (it’s still on my ipod today) but I tried to contain my enthusiasm as I knew my dad was always partial to the Statler Brothers. The radio played all day long and I remember how quiet the shop seemed at the end of the day when my dad switched the radio off just before we latched the back door, pulled the front doors closed and went home.

I guess the doors are now closed for good. In reality I suppose they were years ago. And I have shed more than a few tears while writing this, as I’m sure my dad will while reading it. I wasn’t there when it was built and I won’t be there when it is torn down. But for the past 50 years there has been a lot of life and a lot of life lessons built at that corrugated metal shop at 300 Birch.