Not for the Squeamish

The O Fam has been hanging out in Thailand the last two weeks. I hope to have quite a few posts this week about our travels. The highlight of our trip was my mom's visit to Thailand. But....more on that later.

Today I would like to share with you a rather gross/cool experience we had, and even paid for. We had been in Thailand a few days when we began seeing people with their feet in a fish tank with the fish swarming their feet. We inquired as to what in the world they were doing, and found out that the fish "eat off" the dead skin on your feet. So, on an afternoon we had free.....we did it. All the cool kids were doing it, so we joined in!

And let me just say.....the first 5 minutes was DISGUSTING!!!!! As soon as you stick your feet in the water fish swarm your feet and begin nibbling. It is a feeling unlike I have ever experienced. I couldn't look, just had to close my eyes until I got used to it. And still, after that, it was hard to watch. Even the pictures make me a little sick.

I was the first to put my feet in, and it took me a while..... Then, Hudson stuck his feet in, laughing hysterically the whole time. Then there was Rob. He put his feet in, then immediately yelled pulling his feet out. A Thai lady was sitting close by and got so tickled watching Rob, she had to hide her face she was laughing so hard! But finally Rob was able to keep his feet in the water. You will notice there are no pictures of Hannah. Let's just say, maybe she has the more sense than the rest of us!

Writer's Block

I can find nothing to write about. It seems to me that the excitement with which I could write about all of our experiences here feels only lackluster as the daily visions and experiences are now familiar and routine. As I rode through town on my bike today one hand steering, the other hand scanning my ipod for a new song, I marveled at how far I have come. The sights and sounds around me are expected. As I looked at the signs along the road, it was shocking to me the ease I could read the foreign words and understand their meaning without a thought. So, in response to my writer's block at not being able to tell you about something crazy and new or exciting in my world, I would like to tell you what I would like to see on your side of the world!!

1. Traffic driving in nice rows, with no bikes, motorcycles , city buses and pedestrians all weaving together back and forth! AND, traffic following the rules and laws given for safety! Rob disagrees, he loves to drive however he pleases, with no regard to safety or laws! :)

2. Sonics and 7-11's on every corner. Actually I think I would really love to see people carrying big massive Big Gulps or Route 44's filled with ice and whatever coke/pepsi product your heart desires! But NOTHING floating in your cup that even resembles weeds or flowers, I see that enough.

3. Houses with yards. I have a feeling when I come home I will be amazed at the amount of grass sitting in front of and behind each house.

4. Closets. For the last two years I have shared a wardrobe thing with Rob. Most of our clothes are stacked in drawers and cabinets. Hudson's clothes are also in our room, and Hannah's are in a cabinet in her room. A closet would be nice!

5. Restarants where the advertised food out front actually looks appealing. Most of the time, I avoid the menus here, and just say the names of the food I would like to order. The pictures do NOTHING for me!

6. Literacy. While I know I mentioned above that I could read the signs while riding around today, I could read the signs that I have deciphered and seen for almost 2 years now. Take me to a different city and I would again struggle. I would love to be able to read and understand every sign with a single glance, instead of having to stare at it for a while, then ask Rob and Hannah how much they understand and then see if between the 3 of us we can figure it out. (and yes, Hannah is the most literate of the 3 of us!)

7. Women bigger than a size 4. I really can't describe what I will think when I walk into Wal-Mart someday and see men and women with all sorts of different body types!

8. Toilets. Sittable toilets. "You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone!"

9. Anything convenient. Garage door openers, dishwashers, garbage disposals, big trash cans, driveways, cars, wal-mart prepackaged meals, canned and boxed goods...... and much much more.

10. Lastly, I would definitely have to write about seeing the beautiful faces of all of our family. It would definitely be blog worthy!

Melting

Do you know what happens when you take a tall cold glass of iced tea outside on a warm day?? Condensation. If you set that glass on a table, within a few minutes the glass will be sweating and there will be a puddle around the bottom edge. If you let that glass sit for a few hours, there will be water everywhere. Well, that is what is happening where I live. Think about concrete buildings that have been trapping in the cold for several months now. When those concrete buildings and all the concrete inside of them meets some warmer weather....look out!! There is water everywhere and the moisture is all enveloping. So what is there to do, but get out of the melting iced tea glass and go outside and enjoy the warmer weather!

Last night we decided to take a picnic to the park and play. Some friends had invited us to dinner, but when we told them our park idea they asked to come along! The more the merrier! Funny thing is, when we arrived with all of our footballs, soccer balls, baseball bats, etc, and started playing, a park employee came up to our group and said we were not allowed to kick the football or soccer ball in the park. ?????? When we inquired of her she said this park was for resting, not playing. Who knew? We didn't let it stop our fun and Hudson even practiced his punting of the football a few times anyway.

The picnic!

The Dads! Hudson playing football.
Our friends have twin 4 yr. old boys who like to play and wrestle with Hudson. They wore their football jerseys last night to the park so they could play football with Hudson. We love our friend's 2 yr. old daughter. She and Hannah have a fun time together. She is about the same age as our cousins Reese and Ainsley, who we haven't had the privilege of spending time with. So when we see this sweet girl we feel like we can "see" all the stages of their lives too.

Of course Dad always makes it a fun night at the park!

New Glasses

About a month ago I realized my girl needed to see the eye doctor. She was sqinting all the time and was getting headaches, both while wearing her glasses. It had been almost a year since her last visit to the eye doctor and I was hoping to wait until we left the country to have her eyes checked again.

But as I looked around I asked myself, "why can't I take her to the eye doctor here? People wear glasses here too!" So one day while Hannah and I were out and about, I said to her, "Let's try to get new glasses for you today!"

So, we went in and I explained to the man that Hannah was getting headaches and couldn't see clearly with her glasses, could he help. He said, "of course" and "follow him". After about 20 minutes the girl could see clearly. She was amazed how clear everything suddenly was. (I felt terrible, of course) and by 8pm that night had a new, cute pair of glasses. I was personally pleased that we went to the eye doctor using another language and had success!!

Baby it's Cold Outside....and inside!!!

I am freezing!! I say this, knowing that my lower 50 degree/upper 40 degree weather would be a welcome change for all my friends in Oklahoma at this point. However, when you live in a concrete building and there is no heat.....it is a different kind of cold. A cold you can't ever escape. The longer you are inside, the colder you get. We bundle in layers and socks and fuzzy slippers and blankets, and yet, we are cold.

So, in an effort to stay warm, we are staying inside and keeping busy. My mom sent some wonderful crafts for the kids as Christmas presents and we have been enjoying them the last few weeks! Here is what we have been doing in the last week or so.

Last weekend I was sick and didn't have a chance to travel with Rob, so Hannah went in my place. They had a great daddy/daughter weekend. And Hudson and I hung out at home. He got "sick mom" so probably the short end of the stick. I tried to make up for it. Hudson and I did our Rice Krispy treat craft together where you make and decorate Rice Krispy dinosaurs. It was tons of fun. This is something I often get to do with Hannah, so it was extra special to do with just Hudson at home.

Hudson and "sick mom". It was very important to him to have a self pic of me and him and the dinosaurs we made!Hudson with his creations. If you look close you will see the Boomer and Sooner dinos as well as the OU dino. He was very proud to show his dad!This weekend we had some friends come in for a visit and tonight i have a total of 7 children spening the night at my house! Fun times. So, thanks again to my mom's gift, we made and decorated flower and fairy cookies! The kids (6 girls plus hudson) had so much fun painting their cookies with edible paint and making the cookies. Hudson asked to take out the dino cookie cutters because he didn't want any part of the flowers or fairies!

And finally, we enjoyed another Christmas present from my brother Reagan and his wife Heather, BBQ sauce from Rib Crib. The restaurant Rob misses the most, being here, is the Rib Crib. In spite of the cold, we grilled chicken and sausage on the balcony of our apartment. It was nice to have a little "taste" of home. Thanks guys for the thoughtful present and the good meal!!

Lessons in Futility

Have you ever felt like you were running in a hampster wheel? Going nowhere as fast as you can? Well, lately I have made mental note of a few jobs I have witnessed people doing that were, well.....pointless.

The first is the lady at our "South Lake" park. We travel around, through, beside this park almost every day of our lives here. Rob and I routinely ride our bikes to class and our route is to "cut through" the park to save time. The park has a wonderful wide sidewalk/road where we can ride conveniently along with everyone else with no worry of cars or buses. Inside the park there are several small "gates" that keep cars from driving on the nice sidewalk, because that happens sometimes, and usually those are open just wide enough for bikes and people to go through. However....there is this one "gate" that has a lady who sits in the guard shack next to it and tells people they aren't permitted to go through, unless they are on foot. But, only sometimes. Most every day this gate is open, bikes passing through evey few minutes, and the lady just sits and watches. Other days, the lady decides to stand up and yell at you (me) as you drive through. I, being the good citizen that I am, always have my ipod volume turned up loud and my sunglasses on. No eye contact, no hearing. To me, her job is futile. She has no authority to actually stop people nor does she really even try. And yet, day after day, she comes to work to sit in her little guard shack and watch people driven in and out of the gates. Some days she chooses to make a difference, other days...she doesn't. Meaning, she is ineffective.

The second futile job is the lady who mops the floors at KFC. If you have ever been here you will know and understand why you take off your shoes when you enter a home. The floors and streets are FILTHY!! So, you can imagine it is a full time job keeping those floors clean, and yet they always need to be cleaned. Last week we carried our food up the stairs to the second floor just as she was coming down with her mop. The clean stairs were instantly soiled by all of our dirty shoes and it looked immediately like the stairs needed mopping. I watched her all hour as she did nothing but mop up and down the stairs over and over again. As people came and went it was amazing how futile her job was. Yet every day she comes to work and mops.

These two situations have stuck in my mind lately. I have questioned myself on things that I do that are futile and pointless. The "time wasters" that have no eternal value, the things that I put such stock in yet are fleeting. And I wonder, am I like the woman who shows up every day and yet makes no difference or am I like the woman who works hard every day on something that will not last?

Lest you think that I am feeling "down" or "discouraged", quite contrary, I am inspired and encouraged to know that the One I work for has such a great plan and purpose and I have the sweet privilege to take part with Him! I am also reminded to be on the lookout in my own life for things that may distract me from those things.

In reflecting on the new year, the passing of time, etc, I am reminded again of Who I work for. That "He who has called me is faithful, and He will do it." That "He who began a good work will be faithful to complete it". That I need to be "about His business" every day so that my life will be a reflection of Him, not a lesson in futility.

Welcome 2010

Happy New Year from our family!

My how it seems like just yesterday we were huddled up in the Summit welcoming Y2K. There was karaoke and "2000" hats and glasses, and we weren't really sure if the power would stay on past midnight and were thankful we had bought all of those kerosene bottles and camp stoves and water and cans of food.....just in case.

And now, a decade has passed. I never dreamed that I would be on the other side of the world from Oklahoma at the start of this decade away from my family and loved ones, and yet, here we are. Our job is different, our house is different, our surroundings are very different. In the year 2000 we found ourselves with 2 babies, and now those babies have turned into big kids....who I love desperately.

I can't wait to see what this decade holds. I am sure there will be sadness as well as many happy times. In this decade my big kids will turn into adults and possibly even leave home....that is still under negotiation. But there are several things I do know. I am happy to have my best friend by my side every day. Rob and I were talking as he kissed me to ring in the new year, and we agreed again how glad we were to spend the new year.....and every day in it together. This will be our 3rd decade to live in together, and I wouldn't want to live it with anyone else!

I also know that no matter what tomorrow holds, I know I trust in the One who holds all my tomorrows. I am so thankful to know Him and tust in him daily.